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posted by [personal profile] pmsumner at 12:59am on 27/03/2002
About why... not why it happens, but why is it idolised by so many people? Why do so many men go gaga over the thought of two women in bed together? I just don't understand it. *shrugs* You wouldn't believe how many times I get called "weird" for it too :)
Mood:: 'confused' confused
Music:: Sex and the City on E4 - *sighs*
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posted by [identity profile] jav.livejournal.com at 05:05pm on 26/03/2002
beats me. wait, no, I find it erotic, too...
 
posted by [identity profile] phil99.livejournal.com at 05:19pm on 26/03/2002
hmmm. Maybe you're a man in disguise? :)
 
posted by [identity profile] jav.livejournal.com at 05:22pm on 26/03/2002
no, thats not it...

plus, perve, the same can be asked about why people ( like you) find other certain things erotic...? pain/pleasure?
 
posted by [identity profile] phil99.livejournal.com at 06:34pm on 26/03/2002
True, true. It's just that this is one thing that is almost universal amongst, well - men at the very least. Hmm.
 
posted by [identity profile] sultrylady.livejournal.com at 05:25pm on 26/03/2002
I'm not a man, obviously. May I hazard a guess that you've never actually been in the same room as two ladies exploring each other's body so intimately? If yes, I stand corrected, if no...wait and see ;)
 
posted by [identity profile] phil99.livejournal.com at 06:39pm on 26/03/2002
*g* OK maybe I should have rephrased that. The problem being that most gay sex that people see is the staged, fake stuff that you see in porn and it's just apalling.

*smiles*

Oh I don't know - real life is always different - and usually better :)
 

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posted by [identity profile] sultrylady.livejournal.com at 06:54pm on 26/03/2002
Gay sex? is that what you were really talking about?
I'm not gay, kinda like to think of myself as bisensual.

As for real life being always different and potentially better, You better believe it, boy!
 
posted by [identity profile] phil99.livejournal.com at 07:11pm on 26/03/2002
Nope, I just find the term "lesbian sex" to be cludgy :)

Real Life - ahhhhh, what a dream :)
 

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posted by [identity profile] sultrylady.livejournal.com at 11:48pm on 26/03/2002
Didn't take me long to get you round to my way of thinking. I'm going to enjoy posting to you!
 
posted by [identity profile] phil99.livejournal.com at 05:20am on 27/03/2002
*laughs* I'm easily corrupted :)
(Only 53.5% Sexually Corrupt as well, by all accounts - so a long way to go yet)
 
posted by [identity profile] kaet.livejournal.com at 06:03pm on 26/03/2002
I'll have to check m'dangly bits are still there, because it's not something I've ever really got, either. I mean most kinds of sex are, well, sexy, but I find lesbian sex the least arrousing personally because I find it the least possible to think one of the people as the protagonist, as the person whose eyes I should be seeing things through, iyswim. Not impossible at all, but definately not easier.

I guess I can see the attractiveness of two women interacting because I find (some) women's bodies attractive and it's cool to watch what that 'substance' can do, like the way that big cats are cool, and particularly cool when fighting each other cos you can see all the sinews and anger, but that's not very engaging.
(bi, fwiw)
 
posted by [identity profile] phil99.livejournal.com at 06:42pm on 26/03/2002
Nail meet head - I think you might have just hit on the big one that I always end up coming back to.

Yes, I think that is the problem, with most sex you see, can imagine yourself in some position - but with gay sex it becomes rather tricky to imagine it through "your eyes" :)

Yes. :)
 
posted by [identity profile] lothie.livejournal.com at 03:59pm on 27/03/2002
*slinks away from your window with her hot lesbian girlfriend*

I don't get it either, but I *do* get all hot over two men together. I don't want to join them, though. I just want to watch. From what I understand, the men who are into lesbians want to join in.
 
posted by [identity profile] phil99.livejournal.com at 04:28pm on 27/03/2002
I can understand getting hot over two blokes :) Hey, I could quite happily imagine myself in either of the roles...

Now there's a thought... so many of my friends are lesbians, that they actually outrank the people I know who are straight... hmmm. That has to habve an influence, no? :)
 
posted by [identity profile] lothie.livejournal.com at 04:46pm on 27/03/2002
Your friends are LESBIANS???????????????? EWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWW!!!!!

;)
 
posted by [identity profile] phil99.livejournal.com at 05:05pm on 27/03/2002
*ROFL* Every last one of them *g*
If only they'd let me anywhere near the bedrooms ;-)

*LOLOL*

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