posted by
pmsumner at 10:00pm on 31/05/2002
I was wandering into the Restaurant (I hate spelling that word) at work, being bored (Kellie's birthday, she gave us an hour and three quarters for lunch break...), when what did I see? I saw people sitting round reading a printout of my recent Livejournal entries. To say I was slightly shocked wouldn't come close, I was fecking terrified. I don't know what I've written as friends only in the last week or more, I am fairly loose with the security of my posts, not liking to restrict anything unless I see a damned good reason.
All I can say is thank the Gods up there (or down there) that it was just boring drivel. Heh. I'd given the address to Heather a few days back, not as an exercise in trust as such, but I wanted to see if she'd look around and see what she said, if anything. My interests are anything but innocent - is what I mean..
As it turns out, it proved to be quite a useful exercise in trust. Whilst I didn't say anything about keeping it private, I would not show anyone another person's writing (or display their art, or play their music) in a public forum without asking first. It's just polite. And whilst what they saw is on the web, nobody knew about it and showing it to them without even saying anything to me is just plain rude, in my eyes.
To put it in a real world context, would you show a group of people someone else's paper journal if they told you where it was kept?
Looks like I'm going to have to be wary about what goes in public posts from now on...
Though on the other hand, I'm hardly rude about anyone, anything that I write is unlikely to be insulting. It's just not my style :) I'll carry on as normal. Just hope that none of them took a note of the URL.
All I can say is thank the Gods up there (or down there) that it was just boring drivel. Heh. I'd given the address to Heather a few days back, not as an exercise in trust as such, but I wanted to see if she'd look around and see what she said, if anything. My interests are anything but innocent - is what I mean..
As it turns out, it proved to be quite a useful exercise in trust. Whilst I didn't say anything about keeping it private, I would not show anyone another person's writing (or display their art, or play their music) in a public forum without asking first. It's just polite. And whilst what they saw is on the web, nobody knew about it and showing it to them without even saying anything to me is just plain rude, in my eyes.
To put it in a real world context, would you show a group of people someone else's paper journal if they told you where it was kept?
Looks like I'm going to have to be wary about what goes in public posts from now on...
Though on the other hand, I'm hardly rude about anyone, anything that I write is unlikely to be insulting. It's just not my style :) I'll carry on as normal. Just hope that none of them took a note of the URL.
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It's this that annoyed me the most, not that someone was printing this out, but that it's effectively advertising it, telling people where to find it.
If they were doing it with friends only, I would have been _very_ pissed, and probably would have gone a bit mad...
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so i know how you feel phil. only worse :p
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Can't believe they called your parents, that's just daft.
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Why not? Because what she actually printed out wasn't anything that I minded people seeing. It just reinforced how dull my life has been :) All I'm going to do in this case is thank my lucky stars that I've been careful and be more wary about who I give my details to in the future.
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You must have known that by telling Heather the URL that the whole group would know it by the end of the day!!
Never mind you learn from your mistakes!!
Next time don't be so quick to trust people they can be very two-faced!!
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"You must have known..."
Not in the slightest. I don't make any pretence to know anyone in the group well enough to be able to judge how they will react to a situation. As far as I am concerned, everyone in the group is still fairly unpredictable. Call it me being cynical, or something, but I have learnt through bad experiences that you can't second-guess people.